“She likes me, she likes me not…”
Trying to figure out if a woman likes you can be tricky and confusing.
One novel research study (Moran and Burch 2023) shows that women have a higher tendency to reject romantic advances than men.
For genuinely interested men, it can be hard to pursue her. Thankfully, knowing some of the most common signs of her disinterest can save you from awkward situations.
From body language to how she talks to you, there are clues that can help you understand where you stand.
This guide will help you pick up on signs she doesn’t like you, so you can approach the situation with clarity and respect.
When she is interested, she’s usually eager to talk and engage with you, which shows that she values your communication.
If you find yourself always starting conversations and she rarely does, it could indicate that she’s not actively seeking out interactions with you. While some people might be shy or reserved, a lack of initiative over time might suggest a lack of interest.
When a woman likes you, she will look forward to spending time with you and make an effort to be around you.
If she often finds reasons to avoid hanging out or cancel plans frequently, it could be a sign that she’s not prioritizing your time together. Sure, everyone has a busy schedule, but consistent avoidance can be a sign she’s not into you.
When someone is interested, they tend to ask questions and show genuine interest in learning more about you. Yes, some people are reserved in their approach, but a lack of interest in your life can suggest an equal lack of romantic interest.
If she doesn’t seem curious about your hobbies, interests, or what’s going on in your life, it may indicate that she’s not invested in getting to know you better.
Flirting is often a way to show romantic interest. While some women are more subtle in their approach, a complete absence of flirting signals could indicate that she’s not interested.
If someone doesn’t like you, they won’t flirt with you or show signs of physical attraction. They might see you more as a friend or just an acquaintance.
Body language can often reveal a lot about how someone feels. Crossed arms or avoidance of eye contact can suggest that she’s not open to furthering the relationship.
Sure, some women are naturally more reserved, but a lack of open body language likely implies a lack of interest. Positive body language, like smiling and leaning in, are often signs of interest.
When a woman likes someone, she will usually focus her romantic attention on that one person rather than actively pursue other options.
If she talks about or dates other people in your presence, it could be a sign that she’s not interested in a romantic relationship with you.
So, should you give up? Not really. Some women may not initially show interest but will do so eventually.
Keeping an eye out for the most common signs she doesn’t like you will give you a sense of where you stand with her romantically. If she’s not showing much interest, it’s probably best to respect her space and move on. The sooner you know her intentions, the better for you both.
Moran, James B., and Rebecca L. Burch. "Repercussions of Rejecting Unwanted Advances:
Gender Differences in Experience and Concern." International Journal of Sexual Health 35, no. 1 (2023): 123-129. Accessed April 30, 2024. https://doi.org/10.1080/19317611.2023.2175098.
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