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It’s the first step in possibly the most rewarding romantic adventure of your lifetime!
Knowing what to do after the first date can make or break your chances of a second one.
So, you finally meet up after chatting online for ages!
Long story short, the first date went great. Relief washed over you as the date ended and you went your separate ways, a smile playing on your lips.
The nervous jitters have settled, replaced by a buzz of connection.
But now, as the post-date glow fades, a question niggles at you: “What’s next?”
The pressure mounts. Who should text after the first date? “Do I text first?” you wonder, fingers hovering over your phone. “Is it too soon? Should I play it cool or suggest another date?”
Breathe easy.
This post-date limbo is normal, and your next move matters. But instead of thinking of it as just “the next date,” think of it as an opportunity to build something genuine.
Things to Do After the First Date
Your next move will depend on how the first date went. But sometimes, it can be difficult to figure out.
If you’re contemplating what to do after the first date, here are a few paths you can take:
Strike while the iron’s hot.
The energy is high, and you don’t want to let it fade. Seize the moment by sending a casual yet enthusiastic text. Mention something specific you enjoyed about the date and suggest a follow-up.
It could be anything from, “That Chinese resto you mentioned sounds amazing. Wanna grab some next week?” to a playful, “Still laughing about your joke. Coffee date soon?”
This shows initiative and keeps the momentum going.
Play it cool, but not aloof.
You want to express interest without coming on too strong. Wait a few hours, then send a friendly message thanking them for their time.
Share a lighthearted detail you recall, “That bookstore we passed by looked interesting. Maybe we can explore it together sometime?”
This shows you’re thinking about them without coming off as pushy.
Let them make the move.
Maybe they’re more traditional or prefer to take the lead. Relax, reflect on the date, and enjoy the anticipation.
If they felt the same spark, they’ll likely reach out. It may not be as soon as you expect, but they’ll be in touch when they’re ready.
This approach respects their communication style and avoids potential misinterpretations.
Didn’t feel the spark? Don’t ghost!
Alright, boys (and girls), I get that some first dates are not what you expect. The person might not be attractive according to your standards, isn’t as smart as you like them to be, or doesn’t have the personality you’re looking for.
But please, don’t ghost! Nobody deserves to be left hanging. A simple message like, “It was nice meeting you, but I didn’t feel a romantic connection,” should suffice without leading them on.
Remember, it’s important to always be respectful, even when delivering less-than-ideal news.
Don’t Overthink
The post-date experience might feel nerve-wracking, but remember, it’s just the beginning of a potential connection.
Don’t overthink the next move—instead, focus on being genuine, respectful, and open to where the journey takes you.
Whether you text first, suggest a second date, or have an honest conversation, let your true self shine through. The right connection will resonate with your authentic voice, and the rest will fall into place naturally.
So, breathe easy, embrace the uncertainty, and enjoy getting to know someone new. Now that you know what to do after the first date, the next steps shouldn’t be as awkward.
