Have you seen those viral videos on TikTok where some guy asks random people the question: “What’s your body count?”
It’s a bizarre trend and some answers are pretty funny, like people thinking they’re being asked something entirely different—and morbid!
Let’s be real—the question is actually about how many sexual partners someone’s had.
But if someone casually asked you your body count, would you be able to answer easily? Would you feel pressure to judge yourself, or worry about how they’d judge you based on your number?
Well, you need to know this: body count matters, whether you have less or more.
Remember that this applies to all genders. Don’t give me the “good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere” nonsense. Men can also be “ran through” based on their choices.
Now here are some reasons why body count matters:
The number of one’s past sexual partners might offer insights into one’s approach to love. For instance, if both partners have a similar history preferring either a casual or serious relationship, it might create a stronger connection.
Your shared relationship preferences can enhance compatibility and increase the likelihood of a fulfilling partnership.
I once read about “soul ties,” which can be formed when you have intercourse with someone. They said that a part of you will always remain with the other person whom you had sex with.
And so, these leftover feelings from previous relationships are often caused by the fear that someone with a high relationship body count might struggle to fully commit emotionally to a new relationship.
Body count matters because it says something about someone’s sexual history. The lesser the count, the better. Being aware of your partner’s body count can help you make informed decisions about your sexual health.
It empowers you to take necessary precautions against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). This is crucial for maintaining your health and well-being in any intimate relationship.
Not that you should care about what people say, but this social stigma will impact your relationships. Cultural norms and societal expectations play a significant role in shaping relationships.
Even if you don’t want to, you might feel societal pressure to conform to these norms, influencing your perception of what’s considered “normal” or “better” in terms of body count.
Your sexual history may contribute to your current partner’s personal insecurities and fear of jealousy. Some individuals might feel more secure and confident in their relationship when they know that their partner has fewer past relationships.
Knowing your partner has a lower body count can foster a sense of trust and comfort. It can create a more stable and secure emotional foundation in your current relationship.
Listen, people might tell you it doesn’t matter how many relationships someone’s had before you. But the truth is, deep down, it often weighs on their minds.
Why? Because the number can tell you something about a person—their experiences, maybe their priorities, even their comfort level with intimacy. So, yes, body count matters.
Now, nobody’s defined by a single number. Plenty of people have had lots of partners, learned a ton, and grown into amazing people.
But let’s be honest. Would you really see yourself with someone who’s had hundreds of intimate partners? It’s a fair question.
Of course, these are just possibilities. Every person is unique and judging based solely on a number is unfair.
The point is, it’s okay to acknowledge that this stuff might matter to you. It’s a natural part of figuring out what you want in a partner and what feels right for you.
It’s okay to be honest with yourself about your concerns, but of course, you still have to keep an open mind to whoever you meet.
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